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Enjoy my writing and art? Support my work on Patreon! I saw a quote today. I have been judged so harshly by so many people. I have been called ugly, fat, stupid, lazy, unworthy, bitch, whore, leech, addict, waste and so many other things. Few of those things have ever been true. People look on me and others with these eyes for insult.
They scan, looking at every aspect, not to praise or find goodness, but to find things to hate and degrade. They seek only to tear others down. What it does mean is that you take pleasure in hurting others, in making them feel less about themselves. Congratulations, you all must be so proud of that. I have. I sometimes have to remind myself how much it hurts, how the names and the judgments sting like hot needles in your heart. How they wiggle deep into your mind, scratching, ripping, injuring self-esteem and coloring everything you see and feel.
It took longer for me to learn not to judge others harshly and speak ill of them than it did for me to learn how to react to them. More accurately, how not to react to them. I am what I believe I am. That only changes if I let it. I can be what others think I am, or I can be myself. When I grasped onto that I learned to let the insults slide off my back.
I started to sometimes smile, because I was silently reminding myself of how their words were so untrue. Sometimes I feel sad though, because they must be so broken inside to feel the need to hurt me or anyone else. Be aware of your words.
What you say matters. Become aware of the negative things you think about others, and more importantly, how many of them you let slip past your lips. Why do you see and look for the worst in others? Why not find something good to say about someone? Do you realize how negatively insults affect them?
Think about how those words would make you feel. Choose your words wisely. What you say to others shows the world who you really are. Become a Patron! Briana Blair is an author and artisan. She has published more then 30 books and thousands of articles across multiple sites.
She is an ordained interfaith minister with a doctorate in metaphysics MsD. After practicing Paganism and witchcraft for 25 years, she's now on a new journey as an atheist and Satanist. She's eclectic, unpredictable, and always evolving.
Facebook - Twitter. Words stick with us for a long time, and the sharper and harsher they are, the more they sting and the longer they linger. No human being should have to take that sort of abuse, and no human being should allow him or her self to treat another human being that way. I just hope that the positiveness succeeds. I just do my part each day to see that I spread as much positive energy as I possibly can.
Being hurt should make you never want to be the source of that feeling for any other human being, ever. Stumble though I may, I try to give people all the love and support that I never had. It pays in kind too. It really does come back when you really need it.
Very powerful article, Briana. It touched me very deeply as all I have seen from you is a very kind and giving person. Like Richard, I try to do my part of doing my absolute best to put positives out into the world, but like you I have been judged very wrongly in the past and it hurts beyond words at the time. Bennett, The Light in the Heart. This is so true. With your words here, you made me realise that I am not a bad person at all. I will alway keep these words in my heart and in my mind. Thank you.
Your words make me think and realize that I need to change how I say things to my family. Thank you for that. Save my name,and website in this browser for the next time I comment. By using this form you agree with the storage and handling of your data by this website. Notify me of follow-up comments by. Notify me of new posts by. Your Perception of Me is a Reflection of You. Disclaimer: Links on this site may lead to affiliate sources to help support this blog. We appreciate all purchases, but you are under no obligation. Not all linked products have been tested by the site owners.
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